Connect classmates with a fun, social icebreaker workout.
Welcome to today’s class! Our topic is “Mirror, Mirror.” Today we’ll be working to build our focus to social cues so we can all stay more connected.
Our TBH Blueprint focus is the “Socialize” action point.
Memory loss can sometimes make it harder to stay focused on the social cues that help us respond and stay on track when we are speaking with each other.
We will be working on the following thinking skills today:
Hand out the TBH Welcome Packet to all new students for a more complete introduction.
We are going to start with a great warm-up for our bodies and brains called TBH Let’s Get It Started.
It is a wonderful way to get us ready to focus and learn together. We’ll do this right at our seats at the beginning of every class. Just watch what I do and follow along!
(At end of warmup) Great job, everyone! We are started up and ready to go!
FEET GET STARTED!
LEGS GET STARTED!
ARMS GET STARTED!
VOICES GET STARTED!
BREATH GETS STARTED!
Click to open the TBH Let’s Get It Started! playlist.
Click for the TBH Let’s Get It Started! complete guide.
Let’s move to today’s topic, “Mirror, Mirror.” It’s nice to spend time with other people, in person, over video and even on the telephone. Time with others, whether you are doing something together or just having a chat, helps keep your brain healthy. In fact, scientists have found many different ways being social is good for our brains.
Here’s one way: Socializing helps keep our thinking sharp. When we spend time together, we have to pay attention and be quick and nimble in our thinking and then, we have to remember. These are all skills that become harder with age, and also when we are living with memory loss. Being social helps us keep up those skills because when we are with other people we need to use those skills to communicate and connect with each other.
We can help ourselves stay social by strengthening our attention to social cues. Why? We communicate better when we pay close attention to social cues. For example, if the other person is smiling, we get a clue that they are feeling happy. If they look sad, something could be wrong that we want to ask about.
Now let’s try our workout. “Mirror, Mirror” is a great way to practice paying attention to social cues. It’s also fun!
I’m going to make some movements, one at a time. You need to watch me closely, then do exactly what I am doing. We’ll do this workout together. Chances are none of us will move in exactly the same way, so don’t worry about being right or wrong.
In this class, we learn and get better by doing the workouts and supporting each other! Ready?
SUGGESTED “MIRROR, MIRROR” MOVEMENTS
I enjoyed practicing “Mirror, Mirror” with all of you. It’s a great way to improve our attention to social cues, which are so important to staying connected to each other. I hope you will keep building your awareness of social cues by practicing with each other, with friends and with family. This is an easy exercise to do over video as well.
Here is a TBH Take This Home card for this class. It will remind you what we learned together today and help you keep up this brain workout on your own.
How do you feel after today’s workout?
Let’s wrap up with “TBH Take a Breath.” Being mindful and sharing some positive thoughts gives us a chance to think about what we have learned together and how we can use it in our daily lives. Research shows that mindfulness practices like this supports brain health when living with dementia. And it is a wonderful way to end our time in class together.
My body is relaxed.
I am grateful for my family.
I am grateful for my friends.
I am grateful for myself.
Click for the TBH Take a Breath music playlist.
Click to open the TBH Take A Breath complete guide.
TBH TAKEAWAY HANDOUTS
Download and provide your students with the following handouts.
Class 1 TBH Take This Home Cards. Use the Class 1 TBH Take This Home cards for the TBH Takeaway closing activity. Print out enough copies of the cards so that each class member has one to take home. Print the cards two-sided and in color. Cut them apart. If possible, laminate the cards for easier handling and durability. If you’d like, punch a hole in the card and provide a small mountable hook so students can keep the cards in a visible spot at home.
OTHER RESOURCES
AARP Foundation Connect 2 Affect Website. This website has a number of resources you can use to combat isolation in your community.
The Brain and Social Connectedness: GCBH Recommendations on Social Engagement and Brain Health. Global Council on Brain Health (2017).